A WOMAN has revealed that she met her stripper husband when he gave her friend a lap dance at a Magic Mike show, and said she doesn’t mind that he sleeps with other women.
Emily said that people think the couple are “disgusting” and that husband Valentino controls her, but she said she loves their unconventional relationship.
After the medical coder saw her best friend getting the lap dance, she begged to be next, and then gave Valentino her number.
The couple continued chatting and then Emily drove seven hours to go and see another one of his shows.
Four years later and the couple are married, and Emily spends her weekends meal prepping while Valentino goes out and sleeps with other women.
Emily told the Love Don’t Judge YouTube channel: “He has free rein to do whatever he wants, as long as he tells me about it”.
She said that she only gets to see Valentino one weekend a month, and thinks it wouldn’t be fair for him to not have sex with anyone during that time.
The couple are also swingers, and this has lead to a lot of judgement on social media.
Many have said that their relationship will not last and that they are on course for a divorce.
However, Emily said that everyone in their life that matters to them is supportive.
After telling Valentino’s brother about their relationship, he said that he is comfortable with whatever makes him happy.
Emily always goes to watch Valentino’s shows, and said she has no problem with him giving other people lap dances.
She even washes his stripper outfit for him so it’s ready for his shows.
Emily said: “There are zero rules in our relationship regarding his performance.
“If he wanted to whip it out and do helicopter, I wouldn’t mind”.
YouTube users raced to the comments section of the Love Don’t Judge story to share their thoughts.
One person said: “It’s obvious that he is benefiting the most from this arrangement.
What is an open relationship?
An open relationship means having more than one sexual partner at the same time.
Both parties in the relationship agree to be non-exclusive and one or both parties engages in sexual activities outside the relationship.
If one or both parties engage in sexual relationships without an agreement, this would be classed as cheating.
Other names for an open relationship are polyamory and consensual non-monogamy.
“He gets to sleep around and bring women into the marital bed while she cooks, cleans, irons and takes care of all his needs.
“Not once did she mention anything HE does for HER.”
Another person said: “In my opinion, I think the lady is so terrified of losing him that she lets him do whatever he wants”.
A third added: “This is disgusting. Imagine the things he’s probably bringing home.”
A fourth said: “This isn’t love”.
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