A MARRIED woman has discovered a new lease of life after spending her time with younger men.
The self-proclaimed ‘’cougar‘’ has revealed how she regularly sleeps with younger men while admitting she is old enough to be their mum.
Lauren Spencer told how her life experiences has developed her into being openly sexually active, believing she can offer more than what a younger person can.
The 51-year-old from Devon, UK, explained: “I would be dangerous if I looked like I did at 20 and know what I know now.
“It’s all about enjoying yourself. If I want to have fun with younger guys I will, and I don’t care what anyone else thinks because they’re not living my life.
“It got to the point where I’ve earned more in a month than some people earn in a year.”
Lauren’s life changed after the global Covid-19 pandemic when she decided to move away from her previous career and start creating content online.
She was left immediately shocked after realising there was a market in the adult industry for older women. Initially, Lauren struggled to understand why she was gaining so much attention from men after comparing herself to young women.
While she does engage in sexual activity with young men away from the camera, in front of it, she often finds herself teasing her fans.
Lauren is in a committed marriage with her husband where they share two children together where they’re all aware of what she does for an income.
She has also left herself stunned after entering the adult industry as she admitted that she ‘’never thought in a million years’’ she would be okay if her children decided to enter the industry.
Lauren also offered some explanation as to why she believes ‘‘cougars’’ exist, which she puts down to those people being ‘’less serious’’.
After sharing her story online, Lauren branded teenagers as ‘’deluded’’ to think that only young people are attractive and engage in sexual activities.
Speaking about why she became a cougar, Lauren told: “I’ve never been shy, but you become more less inhibited where you care more about how things you feel and having fun, instead of how you look.
What your sexual fantasies say about you
By Emma Kenny, a TV presenter and psychologist
Raucous Role Play: If your partner enjoys dressing up for fun, it shows creativity and a desire to keep things exciting. However, it might signal that he struggles with responsibility.
Multi-Partner Fantasies: Craving variety doesn’t always mean he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment.
Power & Control: A little dominance is normal, but if it’s always about control, it may hide insecurities.
Adventure: Men seeking thrills may push boundaries, so be sure your comfort zone is respected.
Passion: If he’s romantic, he’s emotionally tuned in—though occasionally avoiding tough conversations.
Flexibility: Openness to new experiences is great, but constant novelty-seeking could mean avoiding emotional connection.
Red Flag: If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics.
“I was gobsmacked when I started doing webcam, I thought ‘oh my God, these girls are 20, 25 and stunning and I’m old enough to be their mum.’
“It was ridiculous, I was really shocked at that, so by the time I started doing content I already knew that there was a market for an older woman.
“You can see best looking woman in the world, and they still get cheated on, or the best-looking woman in the world and they still don’t have the confidence – it’s not just about how you look.
“I’ve been with guys who are actually shaking because they’re so nervous and I’ve had guys who message me and say they don’t know what to do.
“I’m married, I have a couple of children, and they know what I do, and I never ever thought in a million years that I would say I’d be more than okay for my children to do it.
“I think it’s really funny when a 16 or 18-year-old on social media says, ‘put it away grandma’. They’re so deluded to think only teenagers are attractive”.